At some point in time, did "they" stop being playful children, becoming obnoxious, rude and condescending? Replace "they", with "we" above, and of course not l

At some point in time, did "they" stop being playful children, becoming obnoxious, rude and condescending? Replace "they", with "we" above, and of course not limited to tech or IT. The ironic thing is it's the weaker minds who are so easily misled, and need help from others to remind they are bigger than the circumstances who somehow shaped them. This is one of the issues that prevent gender balance in many areas, and hurts both genders to boot.