> Remember that this feeling is not necessarily correct. It is natural non the less. > They are really asking to be challenged or given responsibility, and th

> Remember that this feeling is not necessarily correct. It is natural non the less. > They are really asking to be challenged or given responsibility, and they probably will fail or need a lot of help. So it's the responsibility of their parents and the society at large to help them become independent, instead of beating them down and accusing them of being stupid and irrational.