> avoid relationship until your life is in order. Huge time sink and ruins concentration. I understood that some relationships can bring a unbelievable chaos i

> avoid relationship until your life is in order. Huge time sink and ruins concentration. I understood that some relationships can bring a unbelievable chaos in your live. Been there, done that. But I think it's very very important part of your life and you can't really have your life "in order" if this question is left unsolved.