I think we're all reasonable people here on HN. I also think we have many different ideas about what's best. (Again, all people I assume are smart.) This is

I think we're all reasonable people here on HN. I also think we have many different ideas about what's best. (Again, all people I assume are smart.) This is just a hard scenario. There is no obvious 'best' answer. There may not even be a 'right' answer.