> Are people using values to mean interests? This was a mistake I made in my 20s. No, values are not interests. Values are things like "would this person stab

> Are people using values to mean interests? This was a mistake I made in my 20s. No, values are not interests. Values are things like "would this person stab me in the back, given opportunity?". That can happen in sport, job, anywhere. From long-term perspective, just like you lose most work-friends when you change your work, you lose most of your hobby-friends when you change a hobby or simply not have enough time for the hobby anymore. Values seem to stay for much longer time.