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What a weird, paranoid idea. Typically people come to my door for legitimately useful or appropriate purposes.

pc86 7y ago
It's not paranoid, I don't think everybody knocking is coming to get me or anything. I'm just not interested in whatever it is they have to offer. If I'm in the market for a service, I'll do the research and reach out.
- eythian 6y ago
  The only people who come to my door are gas people saying that they're going to be turning it off for a period/back on, window washers coming to clean the windows they can't reach from the outside, and similar things. I do want what they offer, because it's useful/important.
sbarre 7y ago
He also lives in the US, where current laws and general social norms and expectations means there's a much higher perceived/actual risk to opening your front door to a random stranger, so it's less surprising to hear this.. This problem, at least at that level of magnitude, does not exist in other parts of the world.
- Nerevarine76 7y ago
  Have you ever lived in the US? You're statement is probably only somewhat valid in the worst neighborhoods. People don't shoot you in the face when you open the door...
  - setpatchaddress 7y ago
    People come to the door in my neighborhood for only a few reasons: - to sell me on religion - to solicit money for some kind of commercial service, charity, non-profit fundraiser - to sign me up for political stuff And they do this several times a week (pre-COVID). So I never open the door to surprise strangers. It's not paranoia; it's just preventing the waste of my time and emotional energy. I'm not interested in worshipping a sky demon. It's not incumbent on me to figure out whether the service is legit, rent-seeking grift on top of a legit service, or a total scam. I don't have to figure out how to gently turn them down just to keep junk food out of the house.
    - lolc 7y ago
      I once got lost in typical U.S. suburbia and the first door I knocked the guy wouldn't tell me the direction I needed to go but insisted on driving me there. I was conscious of being percieved as a potential threat in that situation. But me being percieved as a likely nuisance to be ignored didn't cross my mind.
kalleboo 7y ago
The only people who ever come to my door are salespeople and religious nuts

pc86 7y ago

It's not paranoid, I don't think everybody knocking is coming to get me or anything. I'm just not interested in whatever it is they have to offer. If I'm in the market for a service, I'll do the research and reach out.

eythian 6y ago
The only people who come to my door are gas people saying that they're going to be turning it off for a period/back on, window washers coming to clean the windows they can't reach from the outside, and similar things. I do want what they offer, because it's useful/important.

sbarre 7y ago

He also lives in the US, where current laws and general social norms and expectations means there's a much higher perceived/actual risk to opening your front door to a random stranger, so it's less surprising to hear this.. This problem, at least at that level of magnitude, does not exist in other parts of the world.

Nerevarine76 7y ago
Have you ever lived in the US? You're statement is probably only somewhat valid in the worst neighborhoods. People don't shoot you in the face when you open the door...
- setpatchaddress 7y ago
  People come to the door in my neighborhood for only a few reasons: - to sell me on religion - to solicit money for some kind of commercial service, charity, non-profit fundraiser - to sign me up for political stuff And they do this several times a week (pre-COVID). So I never open the door to surprise strangers. It's not paranoia; it's just preventing the waste of my time and emotional energy. I'm not interested in worshipping a sky demon. It's not incumbent on me to figure out whether the service is legit, rent-seeking grift on top of a legit service, or a total scam. I don't have to figure out how to gently turn them down just to keep junk food out of the house.
  - lolc 7y ago
    I once got lost in typical U.S. suburbia and the first door I knocked the guy wouldn't tell me the direction I needed to go but insisted on driving me there. I was conscious of being percieved as a potential threat in that situation. But me being percieved as a likely nuisance to be ignored didn't cross my mind.

kalleboo 7y ago

The only people who ever come to my door are salespeople and religious nuts