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I think the implication is that it's easier for young boys to get out of their parental responsibilities than for young girls. I've seen, a number of times, fr
by nostrademons 7y ago
I think the implication is that it's easier for young boys to get out of their parental responsibilities than for young girls.
I've seen, a number of times, friends & family & random Internet advice-givers of teenage fathers say "Get a paternity test!" or "Don't sign anything". Particularly if they're close with the father but don't like the mother. Sometimes even if the dad-to-be is excited about having a kid. It's a very marked contrast to how we treat adult males (and what we claim to value as a society), where the advice is usually "Time to man up, get a job, and be a dad."
No such thing as a maternity test, and we tend to excoriate young mothers who might want to shirk their maternal responsibilities.
There's probably something revealing there about self-interest and who we identify with in a situation.
- woah 7y agoNo such thing as a maternity test? Isn’t it kind of obvious?
- nostrademons 7y agoThat was the point. Everybody knows who the mother of a baby is; fathers have plausible deniability.
- ben_w 7y agoUsually. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lydia_Fairchild https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lydia_Fairchild Linked case wasn’t even the one I was looking for, but the cause was the same. Still the mother, but surprisingly non-obvious.