This has some parallels to the psychological effect that I don’t recollect the name for. It goes something like this: Tell a kid to clean their room and they wi

This has some parallels to the psychological effect that I don’t recollect the name for. It goes something like this: Tell a kid to clean their room and they will come up several excuses to not do it, “I’m busy”, “I will do to tomorrow” etc. So you ask the kid, “given a choice between cleaning a room and not cleaning a room, what would be the reasons why a kid will choose to clean it?”. This triggers the positive reasons in their head to actually do it. Use responsibly.