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It's a decision she made that proved to be great, so she's proud of it. Strange how you targeted the only vaguely feminist achievement in the whole list.

DonHopkins 6y ago
Some insecure little boys feel extremely threatened and frightened by strong women in video games, and throw tantrums about it and viciously attack people in public, as we all know. She's brave to potentially subject herself to that kind of abuse and harassment by making such a decision. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy
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- ThrowawayR2 6y ago
  Not that you're not correct but if I wrote a post with words like that, I'd get busted by the mods for flamebait. Bad behavior by others doesn't excuse more bad behavior.
mikekchar 6y ago
Just to play devil's advocate, it's not really clear from the article what the designer is proud about. "The strongest and most expensive unit in our Pirate Faction is the Pirate Queen. She is kick ass, looks cool, and is even voiced by myself!" Why shouldn't she be kick ass and looking cool? Why shouldn't she be the most expensive unit in the faction? It's speaking to a narrative for which we have to guess the other side. I think the implication is that players of the game are not predisposed to enjoy female units in the game. I don't know anything about the game, so maybe I'm missing something, but I actually find that insulting. Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view? While we have to accept that some gamers do have this awful point of view, I think it's part of the problem that some people feel that gamers must be like that. In some ways it is potentially a bit of a sad thing to be proud of. I mean it can be taken in a few ways. One might be proud to have pushed this strong female unit into the midst of an audience that normally wouldn't accept it. Or one might be proud to have been able to deliver the strong female unit that the audience has been hungering for. I can see some people feeling a bit put out if they assume that the designer's intent was the former rather than the latter. It's potentially really demeaning.
- DonHopkins 6y ago
  >Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view? Have you been cryogenically frozen for the past six years, and just thawed out and taken a nice long pee, but haven't had a chance to catch up on Gamergate? Do you even know who's president? No, I don't think it's the female game designers who are being "demeaning". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgFDo6G-EO8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgFDo6G-EO8 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy
  - mikekchar 6y ago
    It's not really a reaction that I expect from someone whose posts I have respected so well up to this point. There is a difference between acknowledging that some people are behaving in horrible ways and assuming that everyone must be educated about the need for inclusion. If someone assumes I am a mysogynist simply because I am a male gamer, that is a really terrible problem. I don't think that's what's happening here, but being open to the idea that someone may reasonably misinterpret the situation as such is not a massive stretch. Please don't assume that all people who have a different view of a situation are massive jerks. Understanding that different people have different perspectives is key to improving interpersonal problems. For example, I wonder if you know who the prime minister is?
    - DonHopkins 6y ago
      Relax: Other people have much worse "really terrible problems" than having their feelings hurt because they mis-interpreted a female game designer describing her proudest achievement as implying that you're misogynistic because you're a male gamer. Was Gamergate news to you, or not? It sounds like you don't know anything about it (which is perfectly fine if you've been living in a cave for the past six years), or you're in denial that it happened and what its consequences were. The obvious answer to "Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view?" is "Gamergate". It's not about your pain and anguish from being implicitly painted as a misogynist because you're male gamer. It's about your own words, not your gender or pastime. It's about the women who have been attacked and their careers destroyed, or their proudest achievements belittled by jerks on the internet saying things like "In some ways it is potentially a bit of a sad thing to be proud of." I'll admit it was kind of you to graciously hedge your attack with "potentially a bit", magnanimously allowing her the remote possibility of actually being proud of her achievement in a non-sad way. But to socially distance yourself from the responsibility of your own words, you should have thrown in a "some people say" or "a lot of people are saying" to give it more corn pone authenticity, to make it clear you're belittling her sense of pride in her greatest achievement on someone else's behalf, not on your own accord. You should familiarize yourself with the concept of your own "male fragility". https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a30324982/rise-of-online-harassment-decade-of-male-fragility/ https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a30324982/ris... The Prime Minster is Mark Rutte, of course.

DonHopkins 6y ago

Some insecure little boys feel extremely threatened and frightened by strong women in video games, and throw tantrums about it and viciously attack people in public, as we all know. She's brave to potentially subject herself to that kind of abuse and harassment by making such a decision. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy

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ThrowawayR2 6y ago
Not that you're not correct but if I wrote a post with words like that, I'd get busted by the mods for flamebait. Bad behavior by others doesn't excuse more bad behavior.

mikekchar 6y ago

Just to play devil's advocate, it's not really clear from the article what the designer is proud about. "The strongest and most expensive unit in our Pirate Faction is the Pirate Queen. She is kick ass, looks cool, and is even voiced by myself!" Why shouldn't she be kick ass and looking cool? Why shouldn't she be the most expensive unit in the faction? It's speaking to a narrative for which we have to guess the other side. I think the implication is that players of the game are not predisposed to enjoy female units in the game. I don't know anything about the game, so maybe I'm missing something, but I actually find that insulting. Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view? While we have to accept that some gamers do have this awful point of view, I think it's part of the problem that some people feel that gamers must be like that. In some ways it is potentially a bit of a sad thing to be proud of. I mean it can be taken in a few ways. One might be proud to have pushed this strong female unit into the midst of an audience that normally wouldn't accept it. Or one might be proud to have been able to deliver the strong female unit that the audience has been hungering for. I can see some people feeling a bit put out if they assume that the designer's intent was the former rather than the latter. It's potentially really demeaning.

DonHopkins 6y ago
>Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view? Have you been cryogenically frozen for the past six years, and just thawed out and taken a nice long pee, but haven't had a chance to catch up on Gamergate? Do you even know who's president? No, I don't think it's the female game designers who are being "demeaning". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgFDo6G-EO8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgFDo6G-EO8 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy
- mikekchar 6y ago
  It's not really a reaction that I expect from someone whose posts I have respected so well up to this point. There is a difference between acknowledging that some people are behaving in horrible ways and assuming that everyone must be educated about the need for inclusion. If someone assumes I am a mysogynist simply because I am a male gamer, that is a really terrible problem. I don't think that's what's happening here, but being open to the idea that someone may reasonably misinterpret the situation as such is not a massive stretch. Please don't assume that all people who have a different view of a situation are massive jerks. Understanding that different people have different perspectives is key to improving interpersonal problems. For example, I wonder if you know who the prime minister is?
  - DonHopkins 6y ago
    Relax: Other people have much worse "really terrible problems" than having their feelings hurt because they mis-interpreted a female game designer describing her proudest achievement as implying that you're misogynistic because you're a male gamer. Was Gamergate news to you, or not? It sounds like you don't know anything about it (which is perfectly fine if you've been living in a cave for the past six years), or you're in denial that it happened and what its consequences were. The obvious answer to "Why is it a given that there will be such a misogynistic view?" is "Gamergate". It's not about your pain and anguish from being implicitly painted as a misogynist because you're male gamer. It's about your own words, not your gender or pastime. It's about the women who have been attacked and their careers destroyed, or their proudest achievements belittled by jerks on the internet saying things like "In some ways it is potentially a bit of a sad thing to be proud of." I'll admit it was kind of you to graciously hedge your attack with "potentially a bit", magnanimously allowing her the remote possibility of actually being proud of her achievement in a non-sad way. But to socially distance yourself from the responsibility of your own words, you should have thrown in a "some people say" or "a lot of people are saying" to give it more corn pone authenticity, to make it clear you're belittling her sense of pride in her greatest achievement on someone else's behalf, not on your own accord. You should familiarize yourself with the concept of your own "male fragility". https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a30324982/rise-of-online-harassment-decade-of-male-fragility/ https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a30324982/ris... The Prime Minster is Mark Rutte, of course.