It may be more than that. When you are an extraordinary person, your dating pool is necessarily more limited than it is for the merely ordinary person. I thin

It may be more than that. When you are an extraordinary person, your dating pool is necessarily more limited than it is for the merely ordinary person. I think this is true regardless of gender or sexual orientation. In Boston, we have this term "The H Bomb," which is the moment one tells a prospective partner that one has gone to, or is currently attending, Harvard. You try to put it off until the second or third date, unless the person you're dating also has Ivy League credentials. Just that word can end things before they've started.