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> Aren't there companies that forbid looking at someone for more than five seconds? Wait what? Could someone explain to me the reasoning behind a policy like t

> Aren't there companies that forbid looking at someone for more than five seconds? Wait what? Could someone explain to me the reasoning behind a policy like this? Edit: it appears to be a sexual harassment policy, and apparently Netflix has tried it [0] [0] https://www.nationalreview.com/2018/06/netflix-five-second-staring-rule/ https://www.nationalreview.com/2018/06/netflix-five-second-s...

asdfasgasdgasdg 7y ago
Extremely unlikely Netflix actually has a policy like this. It was probably an example of what could be considered creepy in some circumstances during a training.
- HenryBemis 7y ago
  Perhaps Netflix had a very unhealthy (aka filthy) environment, like Uber and the likes, and they cracked it "up to eleven".
  - asdfasgasdgasdg 7y ago
    Perhaps, but almost certainly not. This sounds exactly like things that were said in sexual harassment trainings I've been to at other large companies. These trainings often provide examples of what can be construed which ways, because a non-trivial slice of any given sample of humanity totally lacks social graces. They don't want someone to later complain that, "I was only looking," when they get reprimanded for leering at a colleague. Examples like this can accidentally or intentionally be misread as policy, but it is not actually policy. It's an example of what can be not OK in some contexts. Of course, I'm happy to be corrected if someone who works there wants to jump on and say otherwise. But I very much doubt that such a policy exists. Doesn't pass the sniff test. https://qz.com/work/1306193/is-it-sexual-harassment-to-stare-at-a-coworker-the-advice-given-to-netflix-employees/ https://qz.com/work/1306193/is-it-sexual-harassment-to-stare... "A spokeswoman clarified there is no such “rule” at Netflix. However, she confirms that the recommendation was, in fact, discussed in an anti-harassment training session, though it’s not an official guideline."
vbezhenar 7y ago
What should I look at conversing with another person? I used to look in the eyes or just in the face, I don't understand why is it harassment? Should I look at tits instead, is it less harassment or what? Shall I just close my eyes? West culture is weird.

asdfasgasdgasdg 7y ago

Extremely unlikely Netflix actually has a policy like this. It was probably an example of what could be considered creepy in some circumstances during a training.

HenryBemis 7y ago
Perhaps Netflix had a very unhealthy (aka filthy) environment, like Uber and the likes, and they cracked it "up to eleven".
- asdfasgasdgasdg 7y ago
  Perhaps, but almost certainly not. This sounds exactly like things that were said in sexual harassment trainings I've been to at other large companies. These trainings often provide examples of what can be construed which ways, because a non-trivial slice of any given sample of humanity totally lacks social graces. They don't want someone to later complain that, "I was only looking," when they get reprimanded for leering at a colleague. Examples like this can accidentally or intentionally be misread as policy, but it is not actually policy. It's an example of what can be not OK in some contexts. Of course, I'm happy to be corrected if someone who works there wants to jump on and say otherwise. But I very much doubt that such a policy exists. Doesn't pass the sniff test. https://qz.com/work/1306193/is-it-sexual-harassment-to-stare-at-a-coworker-the-advice-given-to-netflix-employees/ https://qz.com/work/1306193/is-it-sexual-harassment-to-stare... "A spokeswoman clarified there is no such “rule” at Netflix. However, she confirms that the recommendation was, in fact, discussed in an anti-harassment training session, though it’s not an official guideline."

vbezhenar 7y ago

What should I look at conversing with another person? I used to look in the eyes or just in the face, I don't understand why is it harassment? Should I look at tits instead, is it less harassment or what? Shall I just close my eyes? West culture is weird.