personally, I have admitted defeat and accepted that most people will not use my favorite messaging app. so I just default to sms and ask people who I talk to o

personally, I have admitted defeat and accepted that most people will not use my favorite messaging app. so I just default to sms and ask people who I talk to often if they have (or would consider installing) my favorite app. at this point, it's only slightly less convenient to exchange usernames. the contact prepopulation isn't even that useful. telegram in particular seems to drop notifications if you don't exclude it from power management on Android. if you don't know the user has notifications turned on and has jumped through the hoops to make them actually work, you may as well send messages into a black hole. this is part of why I never assume it's a good way to contact someone without explicitly asking.