You need: 1. A desire to learn it. Learn to shape that desire. Like I want to go to Colombia to talk to hot girls, etc. It can be a straight grind at times, so

You need: 1. A desire to learn it. Learn to shape that desire. Like I want to go to Colombia to talk to hot girls, etc. It can be a straight grind at times, so you want to feel like it's gonna be worth it. 2. Start learning phrases you can use from day 1. Pimsleur is good because it teaches you almost perfect pronunciation from the beginning. Pronunciation is more important in some languages than others, but most importantly it gets you in the mindset/vibe of that language. 3. Structured lessons. Duolingo is alright just to start. Assimil is good once you're around A2 or higher. It would be good, as another person mentioned, to learn the general grammatical structure. You don't need to be a wiz, but you will have enough to infer the correct way to construct what you want to say. 4. Natural exposure. Go to a language meetup, have a regular Skype tutoring session twice or 3 times a week. Or of course go live in the country. This makes speaking it part of your life.