"we talk more about the good stuff than about the bad stuff," 20:1 minimum good to bad. Minimum. Even one "bad" a week may just be too much. Also, limit the r

"we talk more about the good stuff than about the bad stuff," 20:1 minimum good to bad. Minimum. Even one "bad" a week may just be too much. Also, limit the relative number of times you approach with something that "needs doing". You can't let your relationship turn into mere help-mate-ism.