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OR this spreadsheet will only lead to nitpicking and grief... I can't think of any high functioning relationship that uses one. The fact that people think they

OR this spreadsheet will only lead to nitpicking and grief... I can't think of any high functioning relationship that uses one. The fact that people think they need one spells doom. It says, if only we had some kind technical solution to what is clearly an interpersonal problem.

brmgb 7y ago
Anectotal evidence but the only time I fought regularly about chores in a long term relationship, it only started in the fourth year of our common life and clearly was a proxy for more deep seated and complicated issues with the relationship. I will hazard than most of the time when people really fight about chores, the actual problem lies somewhere else.