Join for all of the reasons given and alluded to, but drop the 'Expectations' part. Or if you insist on having them, go read Charles Dickens 'Great Expectations

Join for all of the reasons given and alluded to, but drop the 'Expectations' part. Or if you insist on having them, go read Charles Dickens 'Great Expectations' one more time (or for the first time) and then ponder...