If your children are young enough that they need a specific time to go to bed, why did you give them phones in the first place? Surely they'd be too young for t

If your children are young enough that they need a specific time to go to bed, why did you give them phones in the first place? Surely they'd be too young for them? It also seems very strange to deem not restricting information as neglect. Why not just have a conversation about them as to why they shouldn't do whatever you want them not to do? Advice doesn't breed distrust, but censorship and other regulations do.