Not to take away from anything you've said, but because I badly needed to hear it once, and I'm not alone in that: men can be abused, too, and women can be abus

Not to take away from anything you've said, but because I badly needed to hear it once, and I'm not alone in that: men can be abused, too, and women can be abusive. If you're a guy in a relationship that feels like it might be abusive, but you're in the habit of thinking that can't be a real feeling - think again, and talk to someone. (If you can't think of anyone else to talk to, my email's in my profile, and I'll do my best.)