> That may be because their holding down a job while in school, have kids, or dug them selves a hole by spending to much time playing video games / at parties e

> That may be because their holding down a job while in school, have kids, or dug them selves a hole by spending to much time playing video games / at parties etc. Interesting. I saw the opposite; people who are struggling don't always have the time, energy, or skills to build relationships with potential mentors.