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There's a lot of hidden value in physical contact. I don't think it should be disregarded so easily considering society as a whole became much more distant in r
by SomeGuy789 7y ago
There's a lot of hidden value in physical contact. I don't think it should be disregarded so easily considering society as a whole became much more distant in recent years.
- fiblye 7y agoPotentially. But I find there to be zero value in touching the hands of someone I only just learned the name of. Especially considering I don't even know whether they're the type to cough in their hands, or the type to not wash after using the toilet. Bro hug with a friend I haven't seen in a while? Okay. Sweaty hand contact with a stranger? Never.
- hackeraccount 7y agoThe danger is higher - that's exactly why we do it. It's an easy way to create intimacy with a stranger quickly. There's a reason politicians shake hands and kiss babies.
- fiblye 7y agoHandshakes far predate modern germ theory of disease. The "danger" doesn't really help with intimacy in any way. It's completely unnecessary danger. We'd find sharing tissues with strangers to be disgusting if it were introduced as a greeting today, but touching the hands of someone right after they've sneezed and coughed into them--after which we often unknowingly touch our own face--is regarded as a sign of intimacy or respect.
- thaumasiotes 7y ago> We'd find sharing tissues with strangers to be disgusting if it were introduced as a greeting today Sounds like you're unfamiliar with the practice of agreeing to a deal by both parties spitting into their hand and then clasping hands? There's also the idea of making a pledge by both parties cutting their hands and then clasping hands, mixing blood with each other.
- TheSpiceIsLife 7y agoWhen was the last time you saw anyone do either of those things, other than in a movie?
- thaumasiotes 7y agoI've never seen anyone bow in greeting outside a movie either. (Assuming we're considering books to be "movies".)
- NonEUCitizen 7y agohttps://www.history.com/news/what-is-the-origin-of-the-handshake https://www.history.com/news/what-is-the-origin-of-the-hands...
- powowowow 7y agoA handshake is symbolic and can be easily replaced with a different symbol.
- viklove 7y agoIt's not even hidden value, it's very measurable -- when you touch someone else, your heart rates will trend towards each other and you'll gain a level of empathy that you wouldn't have had without physical touch.