With newborns my wife and I tried to give each other a couple of hours a day to have some time off. That was about the limit. We were lucky that here kids get t

With newborns my wife and I tried to give each other a couple of hours a day to have some time off. That was about the limit. We were lucky that here kids get to go to great kindergartens from 18 months. True normalcy in that both are sleeping through the night in their own beds most of the time took until the youngest was three.