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I'm willing to sacrifice the well-being of other people for my own benefits. Otherwise I'd be in a moral dilemma just going shopping in a supermarket.

by Kaiyou 7y ago

Timpy 7y ago
And you don't find sacrificing the well-being of others to be a moral dilemma?
- Kaiyou 7y ago
  It's a sacrifice, yes, but I can buy chocolate without being anguished that it got the blood of children from third-world countries on it. Doesn't everyone silently accept these things by living in modern society? I mean, sure, some people love to pretend that they really care, but none of them sacrifice their own benefits, instead choosing, like me, to sacrifice the benefits of other people. There's no dilemma once I've chosen a position. The dilemma is having to choose if you want to sacrifice your benefits, by for example not buying a smartphone, or the benefits of other people, by supporting the exploitation of other people through your purchasing power.
  - bluntfang 7y ago
    You're being downvoted, but you're right. We've all had blood on our hands for a long time. It's funny how it means more to people when it's right in front of their eyes.
  - paulmd 7y ago
    Ursula K LeGuin's short story "The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas" is an interesting meditation on this. https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:IZDmzkZ0u5sJ:https://canvas.wayne.edu/files/3466337/download%3Fdownload_frd%3D1+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=firefox-b-1-d https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:IZDmzk... Yes, generally we do just silently accept these things. You're typing this on a PC or phone built using slave labor using minerals extracted by warlords to fund campaigns of oppression (despite some companies paying lip service to these issues it really still affects all electronic devices). When you are finished with them, they will be sent to Africa and burned in open landfills by hand to extract valuable minerals. Our oil market is based on dictators extracting their nation's wealth and using it to fund terror, in some cases literally on us. Nobody in the modern world walks away from Omelas.
    - memling 7y ago
      > Yes, generally we do just silently accept these things. You're typing this on a PC or phone built using slave labor using minerals extracted by warlords to fund campaigns of oppression (despite some companies paying lip service to these issues it really still affects all electronic devices). When you are finished with them, they will be sent to Africa and burned in open landfills by hand to extract valuable minerals. Our oil market is based on dictators extracting their nation's wealth and using it to fund terror, in some cases literally on us. Let's grant this point. It's arguable, but I generally support it. Another route is to use the very tools that are produced by these processes to subvert and upend those processes. For example, your comment is one such method of getting started by raising awareness and possibly redirecting behavior. The same thing could be writ large: a tool like Twitter, for example, enables mass demonstration and a certain sort of transparency that was harder to establish prior to its creation. We sometimes hear and say that X is not inherently moral or immoral, just how it's used. While I think that's probably not true, in many cases, the seeds of redemption can bloom from the soils of corruption. If we are inextricably enmeshed in a corrupt society and world, it seems then that the moral choice is how to subvert that corruption with its own fruit.
  - throwanem 7y ago
    "No ethical consumption under capitalism" is no excuse for moral cowardice. Sure, I live in a society, too. But I refuse to make these sorts of excuses for it. That's quite literally the least I can do. But it's not quite the same as doing nothing.
    - ThrowawayR2 7y ago
      "A difference which makes no difference is no difference at all." --William James
      - throwanem 7y ago
        Not so much as a footnote in this century's answer to They Thought They Were Free.
    - Kaiyou 7y ago
      Capitalism isn't the root of this problem and I'm not being a coward, I just made my choice. Fundamentally, I do not have a problem with sacrificing other people for my benefits and I do not pretend otherwise. If the pretense is important for you, that's fine. You can keep pretending that you haven't made the same choice as me, if it makes you happy. But your actions speak louder than your words. With limited resources there's always going to be a struggle to gain more benefits than other people. Few people willing kill themselves to benefit others, but lots of people willingly kill other people to benefit themselves. That's just human nature and the root of the problem. If you'd forfeit your own life in a kill or be killed situation your position would at least be consistent, albeit really stupid. But no one really is like that, everyone just loves to pretend that they are good people, which I don't even take issue with. I'm just openly admitting to my human nature.
      - pinkfoot 7y ago
        > I do not pretend otherwise. Post with your real name then. I dare you.
        7y ago
  - computerex 7y ago
    Most people aren't even aware of the hardships people in underdeveloped/developing countries have to go through in order to sustain our "modern society". It's out of sight out of mind. If everyone was more acutely aware of the suffering, then there may be more of a backlash. In short, people are too busy living their lives to know and consequently empathize with what's happening on the other side of the planet. But that's not the same thing as blind acceptance. I grew up in America, and decided to go to Southwest Asia for a while. Seeing small children work is gut wrenching and something I had never seen or thought about till I saw it on my own personally. And it has certainly made me wary and selective about hiring any sort of service, even at the expense of my own convenience. Bottom line is empathy.
    - ihm 7y ago
      To sibling bobthechef, whom the site will not let me reply to directly: Your question assumes a frame of atomized individual decision making, and forgoes the possibility of changing our political economy so that children don’t have to work. This is easily doable from a production standpoint (i.e., we could all still have enough if children did not have to work, perhaps Bezos would have to give up a little). That we don’t do this is an entirely political decision.
    - bobthechef 7y ago
      How about this: what would the lives of these children be like without that work? From your Western perspective, you judge this to be awful and evil, but what if the work they're doing is actually allowing them to make their families more than they could otherwise? What if it's the best option that currently exists? What if it contributes to increasing living standards in their country over time?[0] You can't look at a third world country through the lens of Western standards of living. A dollar a day is worth a great deal in some parts of the world. The question isn't "why are some people poor", it's "why are some people rich". Human beings are born poor. We receive or make (or steal) whatever we have. [0] Obviously, I am discounting political corruption that might keep wages artificially low.
  - Djvacto 7y ago
    You say "none of them sacrifice their own benefits", but I do know people who make sacrifices to choose others' well-being, such as researching the products they buy, forgoing certain foods, products, and services. So I'd say not everyone is "pretending to really care".
    - MaxBarraclough 7y ago
      Morally motivated veganism is the obvious example.
    - Kaiyou 7y ago
      As long as they own a smartphone, I'd categorize it as pretending. It's like a slave owner who goes vegan. It's clear that they do not give up their own benefits, but merely pretend to, by making choices that do not really infringe on their core benefits.
- matz1 7y ago
  People's moral framework can be different. Is is surprising that not everyone find this a moral dilemma ?
  - computerex 7y ago
    I think you'd have to be psychopathic and lacking the ability to empathize to not consider this to be a moral dilemma.
    - matz1 7y ago
      Maybe but still not everyone is the same, is it surprising that not everyone has the same level of empathy or even same definition of empathy ?
    - UnFleshedOne 7y ago
      Empathy is exactly the wrong emotion to have here. Empathy doesn't work at scale, just makes you pity people that are like you more than people unlike you. Regardless of objective relative hardship.
    - Kaiyou 7y ago
      Do soldiers have to be psychopaths to kill their enemy in a war? It's only a moral dilemma until you've made your choice. Fundamentally, the world is still kill or be killed. It's just hidden behind many layers of abstractions.
werber 7y ago
I struggle with this, I feel like unless I go off the grid and become self sufficient I can't say I'm 100% positive I'm not exploiting someone.
- computerex 7y ago
  Two wrongs don't make a right. If we can't completely eliminate suffering of others 100%, we can at the very least try and minimize it.
  - Kaiyou 7y ago
    What have you done personally to try to minimize the suffering of others?
- matt-attack 7y ago
  If you see any and all exchanges of money for goods & services to be exploitation, then you need to get your head checked.
  - werber 7y ago
    No no, but the what if someone down the supply chain is being exploited and as the end user I’m responsible
- pja 7y ago
  The Good Place made a point of this! They (kind of arbitrarily ) placed the last date it was possible to exist without exploiting other people’s misfortune in some way back in the 1600s.
  - carapace 7y ago
    My sister watches that show and... SPOILER ALERT!! I caught the episode where they detail how every act you perform in modern life has so many negative consequences and repercussions that everyone on Earth has, for centuries, wound up going to Hell. It haunts me because it's true. (Not the going-to-hell bit, the part about how things are so interconnected and so fucked up that you can't wipe your ass without damaging the environment, and that's even before you get to the luxury phones made by de facto slave labor.) "There's got to be a better way!"

I'm willing to sacrifice the well-being of other people for my own benefits. Otherwise I'd be in a moral dilemma just going shopping in a supermarket.

by Kaiyou 7y ago

I'm willing to sacrifice the well-being of other people for my own benefits. Otherwise I'd be in a moral dilemma just going shopping in a supermarket.

Timpy 7y ago

And you don't find sacrificing the well-being of others to be a moral dilemma?

Kaiyou 7y ago
It's a sacrifice, yes, but I can buy chocolate without being anguished that it got the blood of children from third-world countries on it. Doesn't everyone silently accept these things by living in modern society? I mean, sure, some people love to pretend that they really care, but none of them sacrifice their own benefits, instead choosing, like me, to sacrifice the benefits of other people. There's no dilemma once I've chosen a position. The dilemma is having to choose if you want to sacrifice your benefits, by for example not buying a smartphone, or the benefits of other people, by supporting the exploitation of other people through your purchasing power.
- bluntfang 7y ago
  You're being downvoted, but you're right. We've all had blood on our hands for a long time. It's funny how it means more to people when it's right in front of their eyes.
- paulmd 7y ago
  Ursula K LeGuin's short story "The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas" is an interesting meditation on this. https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:IZDmzkZ0u5sJ:https://canvas.wayne.edu/files/3466337/download%3Fdownload_frd%3D1+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=firefox-b-1-d https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:IZDmzk... Yes, generally we do just silently accept these things. You're typing this on a PC or phone built using slave labor using minerals extracted by warlords to fund campaigns of oppression (despite some companies paying lip service to these issues it really still affects all electronic devices). When you are finished with them, they will be sent to Africa and burned in open landfills by hand to extract valuable minerals. Our oil market is based on dictators extracting their nation's wealth and using it to fund terror, in some cases literally on us. Nobody in the modern world walks away from Omelas.
  - memling 7y ago
    > Yes, generally we do just silently accept these things. You're typing this on a PC or phone built using slave labor using minerals extracted by warlords to fund campaigns of oppression (despite some companies paying lip service to these issues it really still affects all electronic devices). When you are finished with them, they will be sent to Africa and burned in open landfills by hand to extract valuable minerals. Our oil market is based on dictators extracting their nation's wealth and using it to fund terror, in some cases literally on us. Let's grant this point. It's arguable, but I generally support it. Another route is to use the very tools that are produced by these processes to subvert and upend those processes. For example, your comment is one such method of getting started by raising awareness and possibly redirecting behavior. The same thing could be writ large: a tool like Twitter, for example, enables mass demonstration and a certain sort of transparency that was harder to establish prior to its creation. We sometimes hear and say that X is not inherently moral or immoral, just how it's used. While I think that's probably not true, in many cases, the seeds of redemption can bloom from the soils of corruption. If we are inextricably enmeshed in a corrupt society and world, it seems then that the moral choice is how to subvert that corruption with its own fruit.
- throwanem 7y ago
  "No ethical consumption under capitalism" is no excuse for moral cowardice. Sure, I live in a society, too. But I refuse to make these sorts of excuses for it. That's quite literally the least I can do. But it's not quite the same as doing nothing.
  - ThrowawayR2 7y ago
    "A difference which makes no difference is no difference at all." --William James
    - throwanem 7y ago
      Not so much as a footnote in this century's answer to They Thought They Were Free.
  - Kaiyou 7y ago
    Capitalism isn't the root of this problem and I'm not being a coward, I just made my choice. Fundamentally, I do not have a problem with sacrificing other people for my benefits and I do not pretend otherwise. If the pretense is important for you, that's fine. You can keep pretending that you haven't made the same choice as me, if it makes you happy. But your actions speak louder than your words. With limited resources there's always going to be a struggle to gain more benefits than other people. Few people willing kill themselves to benefit others, but lots of people willingly kill other people to benefit themselves. That's just human nature and the root of the problem. If you'd forfeit your own life in a kill or be killed situation your position would at least be consistent, albeit really stupid. But no one really is like that, everyone just loves to pretend that they are good people, which I don't even take issue with. I'm just openly admitting to my human nature.
    - pinkfoot 7y ago
      > I do not pretend otherwise. Post with your real name then. I dare you.
      - 7y ago
- computerex 7y ago
  Most people aren't even aware of the hardships people in underdeveloped/developing countries have to go through in order to sustain our "modern society". It's out of sight out of mind. If everyone was more acutely aware of the suffering, then there may be more of a backlash. In short, people are too busy living their lives to know and consequently empathize with what's happening on the other side of the planet. But that's not the same thing as blind acceptance. I grew up in America, and decided to go to Southwest Asia for a while. Seeing small children work is gut wrenching and something I had never seen or thought about till I saw it on my own personally. And it has certainly made me wary and selective about hiring any sort of service, even at the expense of my own convenience. Bottom line is empathy.
  - ihm 7y ago
    To sibling bobthechef, whom the site will not let me reply to directly: Your question assumes a frame of atomized individual decision making, and forgoes the possibility of changing our political economy so that children don’t have to work. This is easily doable from a production standpoint (i.e., we could all still have enough if children did not have to work, perhaps Bezos would have to give up a little). That we don’t do this is an entirely political decision.
  - bobthechef 7y ago
    How about this: what would the lives of these children be like without that work? From your Western perspective, you judge this to be awful and evil, but what if the work they're doing is actually allowing them to make their families more than they could otherwise? What if it's the best option that currently exists? What if it contributes to increasing living standards in their country over time?[0] You can't look at a third world country through the lens of Western standards of living. A dollar a day is worth a great deal in some parts of the world. The question isn't "why are some people poor", it's "why are some people rich". Human beings are born poor. We receive or make (or steal) whatever we have. [0] Obviously, I am discounting political corruption that might keep wages artificially low.
- Djvacto 7y ago
  You say "none of them sacrifice their own benefits", but I do know people who make sacrifices to choose others' well-being, such as researching the products they buy, forgoing certain foods, products, and services. So I'd say not everyone is "pretending to really care".
  - MaxBarraclough 7y ago
    Morally motivated veganism is the obvious example.
  - Kaiyou 7y ago
    As long as they own a smartphone, I'd categorize it as pretending. It's like a slave owner who goes vegan. It's clear that they do not give up their own benefits, but merely pretend to, by making choices that do not really infringe on their core benefits.
matz1 7y ago
People's moral framework can be different. Is is surprising that not everyone find this a moral dilemma ?
- computerex 7y ago
  I think you'd have to be psychopathic and lacking the ability to empathize to not consider this to be a moral dilemma.
  - matz1 7y ago
    Maybe but still not everyone is the same, is it surprising that not everyone has the same level of empathy or even same definition of empathy ?
  - UnFleshedOne 7y ago
    Empathy is exactly the wrong emotion to have here. Empathy doesn't work at scale, just makes you pity people that are like you more than people unlike you. Regardless of objective relative hardship.
  - Kaiyou 7y ago
    Do soldiers have to be psychopaths to kill their enemy in a war? It's only a moral dilemma until you've made your choice. Fundamentally, the world is still kill or be killed. It's just hidden behind many layers of abstractions.

werber 7y ago

I struggle with this, I feel like unless I go off the grid and become self sufficient I can't say I'm 100% positive I'm not exploiting someone.

computerex 7y ago
Two wrongs don't make a right. If we can't completely eliminate suffering of others 100%, we can at the very least try and minimize it.
- Kaiyou 7y ago
  What have you done personally to try to minimize the suffering of others?
matt-attack 7y ago
If you see any and all exchanges of money for goods & services to be exploitation, then you need to get your head checked.
- werber 7y ago
  No no, but the what if someone down the supply chain is being exploited and as the end user I’m responsible
pja 7y ago
The Good Place made a point of this! They (kind of arbitrarily ) placed the last date it was possible to exist without exploiting other people’s misfortune in some way back in the 1600s.
- carapace 7y ago
  My sister watches that show and... SPOILER ALERT!! I caught the episode where they detail how every act you perform in modern life has so many negative consequences and repercussions that everyone on Earth has, for centuries, wound up going to Hell. It haunts me because it's true. (Not the going-to-hell bit, the part about how things are so interconnected and so fucked up that you can't wipe your ass without damaging the environment, and that's even before you get to the luxury phones made by de facto slave labor.) "There's got to be a better way!"