When my hair was blue (or purple, or bright red, or whatever), I had people tell me that I'd be pretty if only I didn't have that hair color. If only I looked m

When my hair was blue (or purple, or bright red, or whatever), I had people tell me that I'd be pretty if only I didn't have that hair color. If only I looked more natural. And that's OK, they didn't need to understand. I was happy with it, and I didn't need those folks to find me attractive nor need their permission. If breast reduction surgery was cheaper and less invasive, I would have had it long ago. It'd be nice not to have to order bras or go to special stores. Or to fit into normal clothing more often. Plus, I'd be slightly happier with my shape. Not everyone would see the aesthetic of it, nor would anyone really say there is expression in it - but what the frick does that matter? It is my body and my life. I'm not sure how this is any different. It doesn't matter if I would get the surgery or not - I'd not do a lot of things others do.