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I've been finding myself really aggravated at people who continue to downplay it, especially when they're engineers who should know what exponential growth mean
by Fr0styMatt88 7y ago
I've been finding myself really aggravated at people who continue to downplay it, especially when they're engineers who should know what exponential growth means. There also seems to be this weird narrative going around (or at least it was, I'm not sure if it still is now) that this is all being overplayed by the media. My manager told me over the phone yesterday that it was 'just a bad flu' and that the reaction everyone was having was out of proportion. She's an engineering type that I'd have expected to know better. I'm currently working from home unless it's absolutely necessary to go into the office.
At the same time, I'm having to grapple with the honest truth (found after some introspection) that my extreme need to make people understand this is just as much about my own fear as some people's need to pretend everything is okay and downplay it is to them.
While reading yesterday's thread about "I'm not sure there's an acceptable solution to this", something in me started raising some alarm bells. Reading that thread, it was like the world had already ended. I can totally understand this, but I know there's only a certain amount you can be drawn into that before it goes from being responsibly aware to being uselessly hopeless.
So I'm trying to practice empathy and remind myself not to jump down my friend's throats in chat everytime something coronavirus comes up. At the end of the day, we're all in this together and nobody has definitive answers.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, remind yourself to be nice to people. Everyone needs this more than ever right now.
Edit: Not intended to be directed at anyone in particular here. Just a bit of my rambling thoughts. I'm also not saying we shouldn't spread good information. I've just been finding myself getting really angry at really close friends and trying to keep on top of why that is for me and how I can be a bit nicer to them.
- dang 7y agoPlease don't use allcaps for emphasis on HN, regardless of how aggravated you feel. This is one of the site guidelines.
- Fr0styMatt88 7y agoSorry dang; my intent was to express how urgent it felt in my own internal dialogue, not to express aggravation to anyone else here. I'll edit.
- dang 7y agoAppreciated! Btw you can italicize text by surrounding it in asterisks. https://news.ycombinator.com/formatdoc https://news.ycombinator.com/formatdoc
- perl4ever 7y ago"There also seems to be this weird narrative going around (or at least it was, I'm not sure if it still is now) that this is all being overplayed by the media" If there isn't already, there should be a thread about Elon Musk gaslighting his employees.