I find many "wallflowers" have deep passions that they'll love to talk about if they think they are being taken seriously. But many of those same people often h

I find many "wallflowers" have deep passions that they'll love to talk about if they think they are being taken seriously. But many of those same people often haven't cultivated the ability to chat about non-passionate topics (small talk) -- and it takes purposeful effort to build up the small talk muscles and do it well and not everybody takes the time to do it. A source of loneliness can be not readily finding other people who share the same deep, unique, passions and that can turn into a vicious cycle that feeds the loneliness monster.