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You just started your comment by listing details of your living situation, however.
by code_duck 7y ago
You just started your comment by listing details of your living situation, however.
- DoreenMichele 7y agoThis is true. That doesn't make it an invitation for the entire world to grill me about the specifics of my life. Previous opinion piece by me if people really want to know what I think about how I'm allowed to mention a thing about my life and then decline to answer invasive personal questions: https://witnesstodestruction.blogspot.com/p/a-pragmatic-approach-to-thorny-people.html https://witnesstodestruction.blogspot.com/p/a-pragmatic-appr...
- code_duck 7y agoIt's rather self-victimizing to refer to what has occurred here as someone "grilling" you about the specifics of your life or being invasive. If you don't want to discuss your apartment size, then I suggest to stop listing the contents and layout. It doesn't appear to me that others have a particular interest in your living specifics. Myself I would find none of this to be invasive, offensive, threatening, or even very personal. As someone with extended multiple illnesses I do not have a secure living situation and I'm entirely unconcerned what fairly anonymous people know or think about it.
- Pfhreak 7y agoThe polite response to "I'm not comfortable discussing in more detail" is "OK, sounds good."
- code_duck 7y agoI wasn't previously part of the discussion, so it would be strange for me to post that.