I think your definition is fair. I based mine on the dictionary.com definition which is pleasant, agreeable. I don't feel that these traits overlap with honest

I think your definition is fair. I based mine on the dictionary.com definition which is pleasant, agreeable. I don't feel that these traits overlap with honesty, respect, and decency. There are positive traits that are easy and cheap and ones that are expensive and hard. Compliments are cheap and easy so I don't trust when people use them in the course of a sales conversation. Trust and respect are hard and expensive.