when used in good faith is the key part there, though. If everything everybody ever proposed was only used in good faith, we'd be living in Utopia. > You have

when used in good faith is the key part there, though. If everything everybody ever proposed was only used in good faith, we'd be living in Utopia. > You have written, formalised proof you can link to that e.g. you're expected to use XYZ pronouns - no tedious offtopic argument that drives people away. They are usually way too vague to do that. "Be kind" hangs on who decides what is and isn't kind. It's my impression that that is generally by design, because they are supposed to enable selective enforcement.