Your self-awareness, self-accountability, and emotional IQ to ascertain the likely source of her resistance are all extremely admirable. It sounds like you nee

Your self-awareness, self-accountability, and emotional IQ to ascertain the likely source of her resistance are all extremely admirable. It sounds like you need to convince her of two things: (1) she is vulnerable; and (2) she must change. How about focusing on #2? Instead of asking her to change for herself, perhaps suggest this could protect friends and others around her who may be more vulnerable. An appropriate analogy may be secondhand smoke. Maybe her lungs are resilient enough to withstand the toxic effects of smoking, but what about the lungs of all her loved ones? Hopefully others can chime in with better ideas. I hope you and your family, and we all, can remain safe and healthy during this crisis.