It depends no the college you go to. I went to the same university as Elon Musk, there was a heavy emphasis on social grooming, talking the part, looking the pa

It depends no the college you go to. I went to the same university as Elon Musk, there was a heavy emphasis on social grooming, talking the part, looking the part, and just in general exposure to the wealthy and their values. Most of this came in the form of out-of-class activities and, yes, parties. In other colleges things are a bit different, so the value may shift the other way.