In the last unsuccessful interview I went through, the interviewer mentioned something about "being a family" or similar. I have major issues with this stateme

In the last unsuccessful interview I went through, the interviewer mentioned something about "being a family" or similar. I have major issues with this statement because it conveys a lot of unvoiced & unreasonable expectations or workplace dysfunctionality. It also seems that a lot of folks become really defensive when asked to explain what they mean by this and they try to pass it off as some sort of common decency and camaraderie when what they really mean is tolerating a lot of unprofessional conduct, extending a lot of undeserved and unreciprocated forgiveness, and forgoing duly deserved and legally owed recompense. I am not a sex worker. Nor am I any sort of phycologist or psychiatrist. I also do not usually earn those sorts of wages. So I am absolutely 100% unwilling to pretend that anyone at work is related to me or engage in any of those things I described above.