EDIT: Looks like I'm outside the edit window. A late family member of mine in the OP's approximate situation was taken advantage of by a local church, which gi

EDIT: Looks like I'm outside the edit window. A late family member of mine in the OP's approximate situation was taken advantage of by a local church, which gives me pause when people say going to one for help is a bulletproof-good idea. I'm sorry for not providing context right away, the original statement on it's own was too broad.