To be fair, Matrix as it stands today isn't very decentralized either. The dev team reports that their big matrix.org server has something like 40k monthly use

To be fair, Matrix as it stands today isn't very decentralized either. The dev team reports that their big matrix.org server has something like 40k monthly users. And while there are a ton of tiny little personal homeservers out there, all the action is really happening on matrix.org.