>you have to ignore reality my mum has not been financially stable for over a decade. in this time she has been starting to "reset" what she finds acceptable.

>you have to ignore reality my mum has not been financially stable for over a decade. in this time she has been starting to "reset" what she finds acceptable. just recently she had to downsize her house and she has already focused on only what I can describe are ways to spend money to avoid reality. she recently listed a train of things she wants to do to her new house that sounds like she wants to stay there for the rest of her life. when asked about the conflict between staying and her next year goals is met with internal strife. she couldn't accept the fact that she needed to use what little money she had to lift herself out of her situation. instead she put priority on installing a dishwasher in her 600sqft apt to help the next person. your brain is the greatest troll ever to exist