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Kudos for releasing the app! IMHO, Unless you're married, don't put your relationship status on FB. Set it as hidden, or say nothing. When things change, and i

by sudonim 16y ago

Kudos for releasing the app! IMHO, Unless you're married, don't put your relationship status on FB. Set it as hidden, or say nothing. When things change, and in life they do... the people from whom you don't want to hear are the first to notice and / or comment on it.

nostrademons 16y ago
I even joined the group "I have never had sex with a goat" just so I could leave it at the same time I set my relationship status from "single" to undisclosed. Unfortunately, they got rid of that feature where it would broadcast to all of your friends that you've left a group...
- kinetik 16y ago
  Undisclosed? "It's complicated" seems more appropriate in that case.
  - bigiain 16y ago
    Isn't "it's complicated" just Facebook jargon for "unhappily polyamorous"?
    - nostrademons 16y ago
      I've also seen it used to mean "I'm still sleeping with this person but don't want anyone to think he's my boyfriend." Fucknemeses would also seem to be an appropriate use-case.
      - prodigal_erik 16y ago
        "Acquaintances who occasionally happen to bump into each other. Naked. With our crotches." http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1221 http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1221
brc 16y ago
Depending on your SO - you might not get that chance. It's not a problem I'm likely to get but I can just imagine the question 'why haven't you updated me as your girlfriend on facebook?'
- potatolicious 16y ago
  It beats the alternative: why are you still marked as "single" on Facebook? If you just leave it off, you can at least make a case out of principle for it.
tjpick 16y ago
Is marriage more stable than other forms of relationship?
- deleted 16y ago
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- eftpotrm 16y ago
  Statistically, yes. Not, I suspect, because marriage suddenly confers stability and harmony onto relationships where none was previously, but because of a mix of people having to pay a large deposit on the relationship and of non-marriage relationships getting lumped in with pre-hypothetical-marriage relationships.

by sudonim 16y ago

nostrademons 16y ago

I even joined the group "I have never had sex with a goat" just so I could leave it at the same time I set my relationship status from "single" to undisclosed. Unfortunately, they got rid of that feature where it would broadcast to all of your friends that you've left a group...

kinetik 16y ago
Undisclosed? "It's complicated" seems more appropriate in that case.
- bigiain 16y ago
  Isn't "it's complicated" just Facebook jargon for "unhappily polyamorous"?
  - nostrademons 16y ago
    I've also seen it used to mean "I'm still sleeping with this person but don't want anyone to think he's my boyfriend." Fucknemeses would also seem to be an appropriate use-case.
    - prodigal_erik 16y ago
      "Acquaintances who occasionally happen to bump into each other. Naked. With our crotches." http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1221 http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1221

brc 16y ago

Depending on your SO - you might not get that chance. It's not a problem I'm likely to get but I can just imagine the question 'why haven't you updated me as your girlfriend on facebook?'

potatolicious 16y ago
It beats the alternative: why are you still marked as "single" on Facebook? If you just leave it off, you can at least make a case out of principle for it.

tjpick 16y ago

Is marriage more stable than other forms of relationship?

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eftpotrm 16y ago
Statistically, yes. Not, I suspect, because marriage suddenly confers stability and harmony onto relationships where none was previously, but because of a mix of people having to pay a large deposit on the relationship and of non-marriage relationships getting lumped in with pre-hypothetical-marriage relationships.