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I’ve always been a pretty good sleeper. I’ve been going to bed at 22:00, fell asleep at 22:05, and woke up at 5:45 after sleeping like a rock. When my gf and I
by pzumk 7y ago
I’ve always been a pretty good sleeper. I’ve been going to bed at 22:00, fell asleep at 22:05, and woke up at 5:45 after sleeping like a rock.
When my gf and I moved together, this changed.
I still tried to go to bed at 22:00 but sometimes it was an hour later or so. My gf goes to bed between 23:00 and 00:00, which always woke me up. She also needed to go to the toilet once at night, which woke me up again.
But to be fair, when I got up in the morning she was waking up too because she could hear me showering.
When she was working a few hundred kilometres away for a month I noticed how much better my sleep was. That’s when I bought a second bed and moved to our guest room on work-days. Well, sometimes we want to cuddle and fall asleep together, but I’d say 9/10 work-days we’re sleeping in separate beds and it’s g r e a t.
- nkrisc 7y agoNothing wrong with a separate bed if that's what works for you. Some folks just don't really have compatible sleep schedules/habits, while otherwise being compatible. It's not like you have to lock the doors and stay apart all night.
- tinyhouse 7y agoAn alternative would be using ear plugs and eye shade.
- MikeTheGreat 7y agoThose help with light and noise issues, but if someone gets into/out of the bed it'll jostle the bed enough that it might still wake one up.
- karatestomp 7y agoSeparate beds FTW. Ideally in separate rooms in case winding-down-to-sleep routines are significantly different, in timing or form.