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Can you elaborate on your theory? I dont follow the connection between honest dealer and low number of attempts at dating. I've dated lots of folks who I liked

Can you elaborate on your theory? I dont follow the connection between honest dealer and low number of attempts at dating. I've dated lots of folks who I liked, but did not find "ideal". Or they the opposite with me. They weren't unpleasant dating experiences. My goal, though, wasnt to find the first "good enough" match - I can be happy on my own. My goal was to find the partner I couldn't live without. It seems odd to assume I was/am a dishonest dealer based solely on number of dating cycles.

smogcutter 7y ago
Yeah — considering that statistically, educated people are getting married later than ever (and therefore spend more time dating around), and early marriages are far more likely to end in divorce, experience on the “market” doesn’t seem like a strong signal. “If they’re so great, why are they still single” is an incredibly self-defeating approach.