I'm not sure in what world fraud is equivalent to a permanent debilitating injury, but even if it it was, that doesn't make it right. And even if it did, how d

I'm not sure in what world fraud is equivalent to a permanent debilitating injury, but even if it it was, that doesn't make it right. And even if it did, how do you know it's the right person? There are 5 people in my house (and I regularly ship things to other addresses). Do you just pick one and hope for the best?