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The problem here is that you were comparing yourself with the rest of the people. I have trained track and field for some years now and if I would try to compa
by tassl 16y ago
The problem here is that you were comparing yourself with the rest of the people.
I have trained track and field for some years now and if I would try to compare myself with Michael Johnson, I would always be a failure. But in every sport you are (at the end) just trying to improve yourself and competing against yourself. My point is that you could have been doing a good game (for you) even without being anything similar to Pele, and maybe they were praising you for that.
- kmfrk 16y agoI totally get that it'd be okay to praise me for making progress of putting effort into it, but - at least - in these cases, I weren't really. That's why it annoyed me. It's also a reminder to be specific about your praise, too - nebulous praise is useless.