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I wish any of my friendships was that robust. I've met a lot of people and I'm very social but for one reason or another friendships in the Bay Area never seem
by luckydata 7y ago
I wish any of my friendships was that robust. I've met a lot of people and I'm very social but for one reason or another friendships in the Bay Area never seem to become very deep (and most people I like end up leaving).
- d4mi3n 7y agoI can’t speak to friendships of 70 years, but I have a number of friends I’ve known for the better part of 10 to 15 years. I find there’s a few things that help foster these kinds of relationships: 1. You genuinely like each other. 2. The relationship is positive, meaning each party contributes in positive ways to the well-being of each other. 3. Proximity helps, but in cases where friends get separated due to circumstances of life: stay in touch. Make a point to call now and then, send a holiday card, involve them in travel plans, etc. maintaining contact is key. 4. For people you do lose contact with: check in. I know SO many people who let fantastic friendships wither due to fear of getting back in touch. What’s a year or two of downtime compared a friendship that can last decades? Reach out, they’ll be happy to hear from you. Relationships take effort, and friendships are no different. Look for ones that add to your life in positive ways, try to do the same for them, and hang on to them as best you can. Good luck!