> Do we always live for ourselves? Do we never try to live up to expectations of our family or friends? Or those who believe in us, being on our side in life?

> Do we always live for ourselves? Do we never try to live up to expectations of our family or friends? Or those who believe in us, being on our side in life? People can of course change over time and be influenced by people around them. However, entering a relationship with another person based on the presumption that you can "change" them is a recipe for relationship disaster. There are billions of people on this planet. If you're looking for a relationship, you're better off finding one that suits you rather than someone who doesn't and trying to change them into something else.