I think it's very common, but in my experience living the city helps a lot (San Francisco in my case, compared to say the south bay). There's a selection effec

I think it's very common, but in my experience living the city helps a lot (San Francisco in my case, compared to say the south bay). There's a selection effect where people who live in dense areas are more open to meeting new people. (There's also a culture of drinking which I'm mostly over, but it's still a net positive IMO.)