This is insane. No one is ever going to be honest since continually being seen as negative or passive can result in your colleagues/boss thinking you're a drag

This is insane. No one is ever going to be honest since continually being seen as negative or passive can result in your colleagues/boss thinking you're a drag on the team. Or that you are being seen as weak and so not given important or interesting tasks. Also a workplace is supposed to be a professional environment. I want to be discussing issues affecting my work. Not how we can fix my relationship breakdown which is the cause of my negative emotions. For many people who are dealing with significant issues e.g. death of a loved one a workplace can be a sanctuary for them.