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How do humans normally interact? I normally interact with some of my best friends over text chat. At one point, I almost exclusively knew my best group of frien
by GauntletWizard 7y ago
How do humans normally interact? I normally interact with some of my best friends over text chat. At one point, I almost exclusively knew my best group of friends through IRC. I've hung out with people in person without speaking any words at all, because that group was deaf (okay, I lie - I probably flubbed and said things a few times)
"Normal" communication is pretty varied - Think of for how many people Snapchat is the primary way they communicate with their friends. You can probably say that the median conversation looks like two people about a foot apart flapping their lips, but it veers in many directions from there.
My idea of effective group communication, and mine alone, is that I'm frequently bullshitting in one space where chitchat and cat pictures are being posted, and talking about serious matters in another space where threads are long but infrequent. Simultaneously and privately, I will intersperse chitchat and serious conversations with team members 1:1 in private chats - I expect most planning to be done in public and "work" to be done in private. I will frequently, say 4 times a day for 15 minutes, open up a video call with one or more other members of the team. I will also spend about 30-60 minutes on planning meeting videochats per day.
- davidw 7y ago> IRC You may have been doing this for long enough that you're pretty good at it. Most haven't. Also: one thing are friends online, another is a random assortment of coworkers, who you may not have had the time to get to know that well, or have somewhat different personalities, that are all under pressure to get stuff done together, and quickly iron out any disagreements.
- Waterluvian 7y agoI think the age old solution to getting stuff done with coworkers under pressure and ironing out disagreements is to act professionally.
- davidw 7y agoI'd take that as a given. As someone who worked remotely for several years, it is more difficult to communicate as well when you are not in the same room. When you know someone better because you talk in person every day about work, but also life in general, and maybe have lunch every now and then... it's easier to have frank (yet still professional) discussions about difficult decisions.