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The related article in the sidebar is moderately insightful: https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-procrastination-is-about-managing-emotions-not-t
by zackmorris 7y ago
The related article in the sidebar is moderately insightful:
https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-procrastination-is-about-managing-emotions-not-time https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-procrastin...
I've been working to overcome burnout that took me out of the game a year ago. What it basically came down to is that midlife crisis feelings had come to dominate my psyche. I found myself asking "what's the point?" about basic tasks that must be done.
The start of a cure turned out to be separating a task into writing the todo list for it and then doing it afterwards. The next evolution of that is to also separate your evaluation of the work from the work itself, so that you don't wallow in critical feelings as you work. Try to be zenful and just concentrate on the now.
Basically it all comes down to anxiety management. So for example, say you are cleaning and you get a text message to deal with an issue. I normally would make a mental note to remember to do it, since I lean towards intellectual pursuits. But it's better to add the item to the top of your todo list and stop thinking about it or the fear of forgetting it. Better yet, pause cleaning (since it's low-priority) and deal with the issue immediately.
I've found that mechanizing the thought processes that I had taken for granted until they failed me boosted my mood. If you think of it as a scale from 0 to 10, our default with stress is to hover below a 5 (say 3). It takes effort to get above 5. But there is a stable orbit around 7 if you can maintain it for a few weeks. I think this is why people with a positive disposition have so much difficulty understanding people with anxiety, because physically they actually feel similar, it's just that our subjective interpretation of them are different:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcGyVTAoXEU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcGyVTAoXEU
Edit: the above is a TED talk about changing this subjective reaction to stress.
Edit #2: I accidentally shared the wrong video, I was thinking of this one:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rRgElTeIqE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rRgElTeIqE
- DantesKite 7y agoThis is a great comment. Thank you. I appreciate the insights very deeply.
- duckmysick 7y agoThe HN thread about the related article from a few weeks ago: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22124489 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22124489
- ianandrich 7y agoInteresting. Any more thoughts on the stable orbit at 7?
- zackmorris 7y agoWell in my case, my depression/anxiety was partly (largely?) environmental. Two things really helped me, the tryptophan-serotonin connection: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4728667/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4728667/ And that I had low thyroid function because I work out heavily but don't add salt to anything, and processed food doesn't generally contain iodine. So I began taking this last week: https://www.amazon.com/NOW-Supplements-EnergyTM-Tyrosine-Selenium/dp/B0013OZCGE https://www.amazon.com/NOW-Supplements-EnergyTM-Tyrosine-Sel... I can literally say that when I started eating bacon and ham again (I gave up pork 20 years ago for ethical reasons) that my mood went from 3 to 5 within a few days, and when I began taking iodine, it went from 5 to 7. Note that these symptoms are similar to what vegetarians and vegans encounter after about 3 years without active effort to maintain their nutrition. I hit it because I had doubled my calories for the gym, but not tryptophan or iodine specifically. Keep in mind that I also did the work of exploring ADHD, executive dysfunction, the impossible task and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for pretty much the last year. So without medication, the answer is holistic. Fixing nutritional gaps might boost mood 20-40%, then each mental adjustment might add 10%. I'll know that the orbit at 7 is stable once my income stabilizes and I have a consistent track record of having few negative thoughts for some number of weeks or months. But so far so good.