“They want to get in a fight with you.” They want to explain themselves. There is a difference. What you consider an argument or fight is just a Hail Mary, alm

“They want to get in a fight with you.” They want to explain themselves. There is a difference. What you consider an argument or fight is just a Hail Mary, almost an involuntary recovery attempt, for some. Accepting feedback without trying to dig your way out of a hole or justify your actions is a sign of maturity.