I agree that the quality of self reflection, and the quality of the outcome, varies. There is difference between having the ability to self-reflect, and having

I agree that the quality of self reflection, and the quality of the outcome, varies. There is difference between having the ability to self-reflect, and having a proclivity to self-reflect. Neither is the same as doing so effectively, and neither speaks to the question of having a motive to make further personal changes as a result. The comment to which I was responding categorically denied certain people from having even the ability. Ever.