An important question: How old are you? If you are in your teens, 20s or 30s then I'd say don't get too upset about being self focused. A lot of us are. Havin

An important question: How old are you? If you are in your teens, 20s or 30s then I'd say don't get too upset about being self focused. A lot of us are. Having kids changes you too :-) Not saying you should get old or have kids, but it's a factor :-) Enjoy being you whilst you can :-)