If you were a narcissist, you probably wouldn't notice or didn't want to fix it. I think this is part of the definition. But being egocentric is probably norma

If you were a narcissist, you probably wouldn't notice or didn't want to fix it. I think this is part of the definition. But being egocentric is probably normal for some parts of the population. I fixed this by only hanging out with people who interest me. So I would genuinely hear what they have to say. This also led to most men disappearing out of my life. Somehow I don't find men interesting. Also, I started being an interesting person myself, so people would be actually interested if I would speak about me. I mean, it one thing to bore everyone around you, but if they want you to talk, why not do it?