First, really cool that you are trying to work on you. I am sure that path will lead you to something good. Concerning your disinterest in people... approach e

First, really cool that you are trying to work on you. I am sure that path will lead you to something good. Concerning your disinterest in people... approach everyone as if they were a teacher. Not only contentwise, but in any regard. Even people at the bottom of society can teach you something about their life by merely looking at them or by exactly analyzing how they talk. See human interaction as a way to learn and not primarily as some humility. Learning makes YOU better, which, in some way, caters to a narcissist trait.